Can you tell if someone is lying to you? I know the truth!

  When I was younger I used to be naive like everyone else when it came to liars. One of my biggest pet peeves when it comes to people is a flake! A flake is someone that says they're going to meet you here or there and then doesn't show up, or do what they say they will do. Just like a flake of skin, what does it do? It dries up and falls off!
  I'm not perfect but I do know how to communicate! If I don't want to do something I will let you know but when that courtesy is not extended to me from someone else there will be a problem!!!
   When a person makes an arragement with you, they know in the back of their mind 9 times out of 10 if they will come through or not, (I'm speaking of a flaky pattern, not an emergency not to come through on something).

How do you spot if a person is being straight up or not?

Instructions

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     Look for fidgeting. Lying often makes people restless with guilt. The pent-up energy created by this guilt or anxiety often manifests itself in seemingly pointless physical actions, such as repeatedly tying one’s shoes or obsessively cleaning glasses. This can be particularly true if the subject is lying to someone he has strong feelings about.
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     Ask questions. The responses someone gives while lying can be dead giveaways if you ask the right questions. For example, if you ask the same question to someone a few minutes after the original question, she may give a different answer, exposing their lie. Sometimes, answers that are too complete can also be a giveaway that someone is lying, particularly if the answers seem rehearsed.
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   • Listen to whether or not someone speaks in the first person. Liars often want to distance themselves from a lie and therefore avoid saying “I” when speaking.
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     Beware of someone who asserts his honesty. There is usually no need to swear that something is true or make promises on the souls of dead relatives to make a point. Liars often overemphasize the truth of their statements to compensate for the fact that the statements are actually lies.
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     Make eye contact. Liars are often ashamed of their lies and that makes it more difficult for them to maintain eye contact while speaking.
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     Observe physical signs. When someone lies, their pupils often dilate, their breath may become more rapid and their voice may rise in pitch.
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     Analyze yourself. Put yourself in the frame of mind as if you were lying yourself, and see how your words and behaviors change. Look for these same changes in the person you are observing.
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     Use your intuition. Sometimes there are no clear-cut indicators that someone is lying, but your intuition may still raise suspicion. In this case, you are probably picking up on a number of minor or subconscious indicators that something isn’t quite right. In aggregate, these indicators may give rise to the accurate impression that someone is indeed lying.

        I hope this helps to all of us that desire sincere working, family as well as romantic relationships. Some people have ADD and so they're late all the time and don't do it to hurt your feelings because well...no one is perfect. However if you're tired of the "wool being pulled over your eyes" or if you need confirmation of obeying your own intuition of what is truth and what is not when it comes to dealing with people, I hope this article helped.

God Bless!
La'Sandra